Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Theory

This is my theory for love. For meeting Mr. Right/Mrs. Right and living happily ever after. Don't Look For Him/Her! Over the years I thought I have found Mr. Right more than a few times, which is kind of embarrassing (actually really embarrassing). Even though I think they are the perfect one something always happens whether it be they end up liking someone else or they never knew I existed in the first place. Then I tear myself down and think what's wrong with me? Was it my personality, how I said something or the way I looked? Last night I realized (with the help from two wise parents) that there's nothing wrong with me (in the way of personality or looks) it's just that it isn't God's timing and the ones that I thought were Mr. Right was God sparing me from not having to go through the heartbreak of giving a piece of my heart to them. This doesn't mean that this theory means that when you stop looking for love that that's when you'll find it. I have believed that but then if you stop looking for love to fall in love that isn't really stopping just another way of thinking. I am giving up on the opposite sex for right now and just giving God my heart to do whatever he wants with it. I don't know if I will ever get married but I don't care as long as I am doing Christ's will.

3 comments:

Kristin said...

Amen. This is something I think God helped teach me over the past year. Sad that it took so long to learn the lesson, but happy to be learning it. Thanks for sharing.

Emily said...

Yes! I resonate with every word you wrote. God has great plans.

Olivia said...

Thanks for sharing, Sarah! I am so grateful for your friendship. Love you!